Collecting the Scattered

It had been four years. Four busy, long years since I had sat in the same room with my daddy and my big brother. We had all seen each other separately now and then, but not once had the three of us gathered together.

Four years is much too long to stay scattered in three states, especially when there are little people with whom you want to share your family ties.

So last month, our families reunited. We drove south all day, and they flew southeast all day, and then we all drove east four more hours to the Ozarks. There ten of us gathered to enjoy the fall. One sweet and handsome nephew, who now towers over me at 6 foot-something, was unable to join us. We missed you, Devin!

  

My parents used to take my brother and me to the Ozarks to enjoy Silver Dollar City when we were kids. We’d ride the bright red train — which always gets held up by redneck outlaws part-way through the trip. We’d drink ice-cold Sarsaparilla, bounce crazy on the swinging bridge, and stumble our way through Grandpa’s House — laughing out our disfigured reflections. Then we’d eat far too much salt water taffy and come home with extra special treasures like shiny cap guns and floppy hand-made rag dolls with yellow yarn braids. Silver Dollar City is a wonderful place for making memories together no matter your age.

It’s hard to recapture old childhood memories, of course, but we created new ones as we all twirled in the tea cups.

The cousins stumbled across the swinging bridge together and made it safely to this spot near the flour mill.

Daddy somehow convinced me to ride some rides I know better than to ride. He’s a completely different person when he has to wear his ball cap backwards. Who knew?

Daddy and I were hamming it up — it’s just a kiddy-sized rollercoaster.

My brother’s family looked calm as they waved to the camera.

Later I followed Daddy onto this giant froggy ride with the girls, thinking it’d be a yawner since little kids usually ride it without adults. But no. Linnea and I somehow got the freakishly high-bouncing frog. Whoah, Froggy! Even my engineer husband later confirmed that our particular frog was mechanically off kilter. Or something technical like that.

Part of what makes Silver Dollar City so unique is the opportunity to learn up close how things were made in the 1800s. With glass-blowing, candy-making, candle-dipping, pottery-throwing, wood-working and blacksmithing craftsmen all strutting their stuff — the whole family can learn a lot!

The girls dipped candles in the hot, colored wax — making something special to bring home and add to their collection of treasures.

Families are a collection of treasures, too. It’s stressful when loved ones are scattered across the country, but I think you treasure them that much more when you are finally all gathered up in one special place. I’m so thankful for my daddy and my big brother and the memorable time we shared in the Ozarks. I love you!

Pray. Thank. Repeat.

Pray. Thank. Repeat.

I read that somewhere recently — probably over at A Holy Experience — and those simple words have encouraged me to use my blog to give thanks to God for His abundant blessings. And what better time to start than right now?

One person in my life who I am especially thankful for is our senior pastor.

Pastor Steve shepherds his flock like no other pastor I’ve met. God has given him amazing gifts for encouraging and teaching, and Pastor Steve faithfully uses them for God’s glory. He’s a genuinely friendly, gentle, humble and wise man who is constantly striving for holiness. He deeply loves the Lord, studies diligently, and preaches heartfelt messages straight from God’s Word.

My simple words will never do this man justice, but I assure you he will have many rewards in Heaven!

Pastor Steve is on a mission trip, which is probably why he came to mind when I set out to write this. He’s spending the week in Nicaragua, leading a conference for pastors and their wives. He’s also visiting some remote churches very near and dear to my husband, who also traveled to Nicaragua two years ago on a mission trip.

Please join me in praying for Pastor Steve and his lovely wife Sharon. They are wonderful, wonderful people, and I thank God for them.

What are you thankful for today?

I think of the lost language of thanks and I wonder what will happen to the culture of Christians if we don’t speak the tongue taught by the Father… He gives grace and we speak the language of Christians when we give thanks. This is who I am. Gratitude is the culture of the sinners made saints.” -Ann Voskamp

Opportunity Knocks

re-posting from 2010

“Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with him, and he with me.” – Revelation 3:20 

Kids in costumes can be cute, yes. But Halloween really can be annoying.

I have many fun childhood memories of Halloween. As an adult, though, I’ve never really been a fan of the day and all the scary, gross stuff that comes with it. I especially dislike all the scary, gross stuff invading the aisles of nearly every store I frequent. Unexpectedly bumping into creepy, bloody costumes and decorations tends to wig out my kids while we are shopping. And isn’t the world dark and scary enough already? Must our culture go to such lengths to delight in fear?

In our small-town neighborhood, more than a hundred trick-or-treaters come knocking on our door every year. They come early and they come often.  It’s a lot of candy. It’s a lot of door-answering. It’s a lot of scary costumes! Sometimes my daughters get spooked, run away and hide.

Every year I’m tempted to be annoyed by Halloween. I’m not spooked, but I am tempted to run away and hide myself. I’m tempted to buy no candy, turn off all the lights and pretend to be gone. It’d probably be easier to hide. It’d be cheaper for sure.

But then I am reminded to make the most of every opportunity.

Ephesians 5: 15-17 says, “Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is.”

How often do we have 100 kids knocking expectantly on our door? Would I be foolish to run away and hide? What is the Lord’s will on Oct. 31?

It’s the same as any other day: Love God and love your neighbor.

Neighbor. Oh, the very word reminds me of all those unique little faces that come knocking on the door — some sweet, some scary, some goofy, some painted, some masked, some friendly, and some unfamiliar. Each one is my neighbor. Behind every mask and under every hat, wig and cape is a person God created, a person God loves — and most importantly — a person God calls me to love as I love myself.

Galatians 5:14 says, “The entire law is summed up in a single command: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ “

What’s more, in Acts 26:17, when the Lord first speaks to Paul (then Saul) on the road to Damascus and calls him to be a missionary, He says, “…I am sending you to them to open their eyes and turn them from darkness to light, and from the power of Satan to God, so that they may receive forgiveness of sins and a place among those who are sanctified by faith in me.’ “

So the Lord’s will is that I use this day, this opportunity, to love my neighbor and to fight fear with faith by shining God’s light into a dark world.

But how exactly?

Well, this is how is looks in our family this year. We offer candy to satisfy the neighbor’s sweet tooth, but we also offer the One who can forgive their sins and satisfy them with His unfailing love.

We turn on all the lights. We let the kids dress up in innocent costumes. We encourage them be friendly and kind to our neighbors. We answer each knock. We give out candy. We give out Christian tracks. And later we pray for each child — big or small — who came knocking. We pray that they read the little books we gave them. We pray that they hear the voice of the Savior as He knocks at their doors. And we pray that they open the door and let Him in.

“Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with him, and he with me.” – Revelation 3:20 

A High-Five Week

Laurel’s week was full of high-flying, High-five! moments.

1. On Tuesday, she had her very first piano lesson. High-five!

Prior to the lesson, which was at 3 p.m. with Miss Amanda, Laurel was very, very excited. I was certain she couldn’t possibly be that excited about anything else ever.

I was wrong.

After her piano lesson, Laurel was even more excited. I literally had to give her a long hug to restrain her from possible accidental self injury. She was that excited.

She loves Miss Amanda. She loves her new book. She loves practicing her song. And she loves music.

2. On Wednesday, after her reading lesson, I told Laurel I thought she was ready for the Bob Books. High-five!

Older sister Linnea fondly remembers these books in great detail, even though it’s been three years since she last read them — and so she had created for Laurel an intense curiosity about the books several weeks ago. Needlesstosay, great anticipation preceded this literary milestone.

3. Laurel immediately fell in love with the Bob Books. High-five!

She read two of them right away and two more later that day. She carried four of them around all day and even read them in the car!

4. Wednesday evening was Parent Night for Awana Cubbies. High-five!

Both Mom and Dad “shadowed” Laurel throughout the evening as she went from crafts to puppets to coloring to snacks to songs and to story time. Not only did she earn Lov E Lamb patch for her vest, but she also was selected as flag bearer during the Pledge of Alligence. I’m pretty sure her cheeks hurt from smiling so much. (Photo courtesy of my hubby’s cell phone.)

5. After Awana, we picked up and installed a headboard for Laurel’s bed. Don’t ask me why her bed didn’t already have a headboard. I really have no idea and only vaguely remember moving her to a big bed. Was she 2 or 3? I don’t recall. But evidently,when you are 5, receiving any furniture — even very dull furniture — in one’s bedroom is exceptionally exciting, especially when it is late at night.

6. Thursday morning was Laurel’s dance class, during which Miss Desiree had all the girls act out a very lively and imaginative fairy dance adventure. High-five!

Only a few days before Laurel had seen the new Tinkerbell movie, and she and Linnea have been fairy-crazy all week. Hooray for dance instructors who are completely in step with what little girls love to daydream about.

7. On Friday morning, Laurel launched construction on the Starlight School spaceship. High-five!

She busily glued buttons on the control panel and helped me tape together cardboard, styrofoam and aluminum foil. Later, Linnea joined the fun. Together they made a space mural as a backdrop for their intergalactic playtime inspired by the book Regards to the Man in the Moon. The mural even has glow-in-the-dark stars. Like any professional astronauts, they packed extra fuel, food, flashlights, a camera, two healthy imaginations and two Tinkerbell dolls.

When you are 5, that’s a High-five! kind of week.

Oh, LORD, the heavens declare Your glory. Thank You for encouraging and inspiring Laurel this week as she studies the stars, learns how to read, hides Your Word in her heart, praises You with dance, and learns to make joyful noises for You on the piano.

Exclusive Interview with almost 8-year-old Linnea

Linnea will be turning 8 before we know it, so here’s an exclusive interview with her.

What verses are you reciting? John 3:16, John 4:14, Psalm 147:5, and 1 Corinthians 15:3

What else have you recently learned to recite? The Goops by Gillette Burgess

What are your favorite books? The Boxcar Children books, Betsy Tacy books, and my new children’s dictionary

What is your favorite Bible story? Moses and the burning bush

What is your favorite movie? Alladin

What is your favorite food? raspberries and Pizza Hut breadsticks

What is your favorite part of mealtime? prayer

 What is your favorite animal? horse

What is your favorite thing to say? “This tastes so refreshing!”

What are your hobbies? scrapbooking, photography, making paper gifts, reading

What do you do in your spare time? play piano, ride scooter, ride bike, swing, and do funny shows for my sister

What songs do you sing? “Away in a Manger” and “The American Bugle Call”

How high can you count? To about 1,000 probably

If you could go anywhere in the world, where would it be? I’d go to Florida to pick up sea shells. Even though I have already been there, I still want to go again because it was really fun!

Besides being tickled, what makes you laugh? Laurel’s funny faces, knock-knock jokes, funny stories, and — in the Boxcar Children books – Benny’s peanut butter, banana and mayonnaise sandwiches!

What are your favorite colors? blue, purple and hot pink

What is your favorite game? Twister

What are your favorite subjects in school? spelling, language lessons and math

What are your favorite extra-curricular activities? art and Awana

What is your favorite new thing in 2nd grade? language lessons and my puzzle book

Who are your best friends? Laurel, Lila, Grace, Evie, Vanessa, Chloe, Anders, Annika, Noah, Jacob, Isaac, Naomi, Ada, Samantha and Kelsey

What do you like the most about homeschooling? snack time

What do you like the least about homeschooling? handwriting

If you could live anywhere besides Minnesota, where would you live? Florida

What characters do you like to dress up as? fairies and bunnies

5 Star Links for Friday

1. Be inspired and encouraged to hide God’s Word in your heart! Read Why Memorize Scripture by Ann Voskamp at A Holy Experience.

2. Get help answering that nagging “What’s for dinner?” question! Check out these meal planning resources from Jolanthe at No Ordinary Moments.

3. Early bird or night owl? This Proverbs 31 Devotional by Rachel Olsen may completely change your perspective on when the day begins!

4. Make the most of every opportunity! Hand out these tracks with your treats on Oct. 31!

5. GirlTalk shares an unfailing resource for when we moms are at wits’ end with our children.

And I really do know how to count to 5. But here’s a bonus link — let’s just call it dessert!

Dessert. Single Serving Pie in a Jar. Adorable and delicious. Need I say more? (Thanks, Tiffany!)

Exclusive Interview with 5-year-old Laurel

Laurel turned 5 earlier this month. Here’s a little profile on her, similar to this one we did when she was 4 and this one we did when she was 2.

What verses are you reciting? 1 John 4:10, Romans 3:23, Romans 5:8, John 3:33 and Luke 1:31-32

What else have you recently learned to recite? the Awana Cubbies motto, “Jesus Loves Me,” and Awana Cubbies song

What are your favorite books? The Way Home Princess Story by Max Lucado and Charlotte’s Web by E.B. White

What is your favorite Bible story? Adam and Eve

What is your favorite movie? Princess and the Frog

What is your favorite food? macaroni and cheese

What is your favorite part of mealtime? prayers

 What is your favorite animal? pony

What is your favorite thing to say?I love you” and “supercalifragilisticexpialidocious”

What are your hobbies? Swinging, playing dress-up, pretending to be a cook with a magic cookbook, playing piano, and playing guitar

What do you do in your spare time? I put my shoes on and go outside.

What songs do you sing? “Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star,” and “Happy Birthday” and “Jesus Loves Me”

How high can you count? Up to 100

If you could go anywhere in the world, where would it be? Chuck E. Cheese

Besides being tickled, what makes you laugh? Knock-Knock jokes, Linnea’s funny shows, and when Papa Bill says, “When I was a little girl…”

What are your favorite colors? Purple and green and pink

What is your favorite game? Hungry, Hungry Hippos

What are your favorite subjects in school? puzzles

What is your favorite extra-curricular activity? swimming

What is your favorite new thing in preschool? 100 chain and reading lessons

Who are your best friends? Linnea, Naomi, Ada, Noah, Grace, Lila, Reilly, Anders, Annika, and Tyler

What do you like the most about homeschooling? game day and school field trips

What do you like the least about homeschooling? not getting to wear my backpack

If you could live anywhere besides Minnesota, where would you live? Oklahoma

What characters do you like to dress up as? the golden princess and Cinderella and Fancy Nancy

Displaying His Splendor

One resort north of here is advertising that they have more colors than your crayon box.

And it’s true. The trees are gloriously ablaze in especially vivid colors this year.

As Minnesotans, we tend to savor every drop of color — knowing the stark whites and greys of winter will soon blanket everything.

The leaves may be dying, but they are going out with a bang. They are displaying the splendor of the One who created them.

Fall is a reminder that we are all dying, too. Our bodies will eventually fail in one way or another. And while we are in the “fall” of life, aren’t we, too, called to display God’s splendor?

My baby is turning 5 this week. And soon we will be reuniting with relatives who live far away, and already I can hear them exclaim how tall my girls are growing.

Growing, yes. But not like weeds. Like trees.

“…They will be called oaks of righteousness, a planting of the Lord for the display of His splendor.” -Isaiah 61:3

Leave Me Alone

Sometimes it’s hard to be the little sister.

I know this firsthand because I am one.

I have an older brother, whom we will call Brent Uncle Zebra Killer, and he reminded me about my birth order status every single day of my childhood. Every single day. Some big brothers are exceptionally pesky in that way. Some learn all they know from their biblical precedent: Cain.

Poor Abel. I can relate to him, too.

No my brother never did kill me — although he has killed a zebra, so I’m sure you can imagine what he did do to me.  If we could rewind back to my childhood at any given daylight moment, you’d probably hear me shrieking, “Leave me alone!” at the top of my lungs and using every ounce of my 65-lb. body to hold my bedroom door shut to keep him out.

Or perhaps you’d hear us arguing about something. We were famous for disagreeing about trivial things, like whether or not popcorn is good to eat. He doesn’t like the stuff, and I ask you, who? Who does not like popcorn? Who?

Looking back, I think all I needed then was some respect, some space, and some alone time. And he just didn’t get it.   

Actually, my brother still does not know when he should leave me alone.

Last night, for instance, he felt the need to call my house at 10 p.m., which would have been fine. If we lived in the same time zone. We do not. I’m a night owl, yes, but I happen to believe that midnight phone calls should be strictly reserved for baby announcements and emergencies. Seriously!

If I hadn’t been so startled and terrified of waking the rest of my family, I probably would have yelled, “Leave me alone!” into the phone.

We also still disagree on trivial things, although we have become much more civilized in that department. For instance, he’s lived in the ever-green state of Washington for the last umpteen years and is missing the myriad of fall colors. With his head high in a cloud of nostalgia, he is trying to convince me that Oklahoma’s fall colors peak in early October. 

Um. No.

Minnesota has splendid fall colors right now. See?

And he’d know this if he ever actually visited me here.

But according to my sources on the ground, Oklahoma still has lots of green leaves and warm days right now. Next week, he’ll have to see it to believe me, and even then if I say “I told you so,” he’ll give me no credit whatsoever.

Oh, siblings. You can’t live with them.

Or can you? I am thankful that “Leave me alone!” shrieks are not heard at my house. Our girls are close buddies. And while they do get on each other’s nerves some days, for the most part, they never yell at each other and are l-e-a-r-n-i-n-g to respect each other’s space and disagree respectfully. Emphasis on the word learning here.

Anyway, rather than hearing “Leave me alone!” shrieks, more I often hear statements like “I need some alone time with Mommy.”

That was Laurel this week. So today, since we are such sweet, considerate little-sister types, we went to the park to play all alone.

Now, please excuse us while we use this blog to throw leaves at my brother.

These are for you, Uncle Zebra Killer.

We’re going to physically throw this colorful leaf assortment at you…

because we’re sweet, considerate, little-sister types, and we want to show how much we care about your fall color nostalgia.

Ha, ha, ha! We won!

The Carousel

Simple joys are worth the wait.

Going around and around on a 96-year-old, hand-carved, wooden horse — while listening to organ music play — seems pretty simple.

On the other hand, restoring these 96-year-old wooden horses and the organ was not simple or inexpensive. But the carousel is a treasured piece of Minnesota history, and many folks decided it was worth the wait and the investment.

I’m glad they did.

To read the heart-warming story of this great ride, click here.