Look at the Birds! Part 2

Now that everyone in our family has seen more than a dozen robins in our yard, we are overdue for our annual First Robin Tea Party — a sure sign of spring in this house!

Sadly, I have not been very good about planning the minor details, such as the party date, the guest list and invitations. Maybe those are the major details! Oh dear. My brain is still in a state of thawing out from our long, harsh winter. Well anway, I have been slowly adding spring decor — mostly birds and eggs — around the house. I’ve also been stumbling across new ideas for the party itself.

New Artwork

I often admire the Christian artwork available through DaySpring, but I’m cheap when it comes to that sort of home decorating, especially when my options are limited. (Or maybe I am just too much of a control freak?) So one evening I was playing around in Photoshop Elements and decided to make my own springy artwork. Here’s what I made:

I had Mpix print it on 12 x 12-inch paper, and then I threw it in a scrapbooking frame and set it up on the bathroom shelf. I think I like it. What say you?

Menu Changes

As in years past, we plan to make mud pies with (gummy) earth worms — the recipe for those is posted here. But this year I have a new recipe for the edible bird nests. I’ll try to report back on how that works out since nobody ever ate the ones we made last year. Sigh. I also added crackers to the menu since I recently found out that Target’s version of Goldfish crackers are bird-shaped and called “Chickadees.” How fitting!

New Literature

What I am thrilled most about for this year’s party is a new picture book! The Story of the Easter Robin, written by Dandi Daley Mackall, is a beautifully illustrated tale about a little girl, her grandmother and a robin’s nest build on a window ledge at the grandmother’s house. The book also incorporates the Pennsylvania Dutch legend of the robin’s red breast — a symbol of Christ’s suffering and love — as well as the tradition of decorating eggs in the style of Pennsylvania Dutch Easter birds. I love this book so much I bought extra copies to send to my nieces!

Memory Work

One of my memory verses for last month was Psalm 91:1,4 — very fitting scriptures for our robin tea party discussion, as is the passage of Matthew 6:25-27

Over the past several months, the girls and I have memorized a new poem that fits quite nicely with our bird theme.

Little Bird

a Mother Goose rhyme

Once I saw a little bird

come hop, hop, hop.

So I cried, “Little bird,

Will you stop, stop, stop?”

And was going to the window

To say, “How do you do?”

When he shook his little tail

And far away he flew.

Of course, the best-ever poem for the first robin tea party is this one, which we all still have memorized from last year’s party. 

To the First Robin

by Louisa May Alcott

Welcome, welcome little stranger,

Fear no harm and fear no danger

We are glad to see you here,

For you sing ‘sweet spring is near.’

Now the white snow melts away,

Now the flowers blossom gay.

Come, dear bird, and build your nest

For we love our robin best.

 If I ever actually stop piddling around with minor details, set a date and invite real-live people to the party, I will take pictures and share a slide show of the celebration.

In the meantime, let’s all go get some fresh, spring air! Shall we?

Counting to 1,000 (168-191)

2 Corinthians 4:15 – “All this is for your benefit, so that the grace that is reaching more and more people may cause thanksgiving to overflow to the glory of God.”

168. starting a journey through all 66 books of the Bible

169. big hands showing little hands how to tie shoes

170. the smile that says, “I did it! I did it!”

171. the sweet friend who generously shares her sewing talents

172. the pink and purple reversible bag they made together

173. tulips and daffodils peeking through the soil

174. the bird chirping in the tree top

175. frosty white tree branches

176. hot water

177. finishing book one of 12

178. little girls in black peacoats swinging their Bible bags

179. the patio that emerges from its snowy cocoon

180. foggy mornings

181. rainboots

182. pink bicycles, pink scooters, pink helmets and pink cheeks

183. holding her hand while we sing

184. Sunday naps

185. robin sightings in the neighborhood

186. finishing a good book

187. walking with her to the mailbox

188. her excitement in finding a Lincoln Brewster CD in the mail

189. how she remembers and paints about smashing rotten tomatoes last fall in the neighbor’s garden

190. how she remembers and paints about butterfly meadow   

191. the sweet Papa who mails us hope for summer — a life-like butterfly in a jar!

John 1:16 – “From the fullness of His grace we have all received one blessing after another.”

Counting to 1,000 (139-167)

Psalm 66:16 – “Come and listen, all you who fear God; let me tell you what He has done for me.”

139. the glorious sky all pink and purple at sunset

140. “smushy” chocolate oatmeal cookies in Mama’s old tupperware dish

141. a tearful afternoon spent sharing testimonies

142. meaningful walks with dear friends

143. my Grandma’s 91 years

144. health insurance

145. the 5-year-old who is a very cooperative patient

146. the 8-year-old who loves babies

147. gentle new moms with tiny babies

148. early morning snuggles

149. spring-like songs sung by birds

150. the encourager who inspires young artists

151. moments to ponder citizenship in heaven

152. peace that overcomes worry and anxious thoughts

153. the new Children’s Ministry director

154. muffins in the morning

155. the very literate 5-year-old reader of billboards and signs

156. little legs exhausted by gym class

157. a break from school work

158. Psalm 91:1, 4

159. bumping into homeschool friends at the library

160. books that tell of the Almighty

161. healing of those mysterious hives

162. the little ears that love to hear stories

163. the liveliness of sisters re-telling silly stories about “Ponies!”

164. the hope of spring

165. the 11-year-old preacher

166. smiling new faces in familiar old places

167. a gentle push outside my comfort zone

John 1:16 – “From the fullness of His grace we have all received one blessing after another.”

Counting to 1,000 (116-138)

Note: I recently read the book One Thousand Gifts, and now I’m making my own list of one thousand gifts. As they accumulate, I post them on Mondays and keep the running list on this tab, titled All is Grace.

116. the bread man who appeared right along with my new breadmachine

117. storybook characters that help shape our character

118. soft tissues with lotion to keep runny little noses dry

119. rest found in unexpected places

120. hands that can fold and cut and create

121. overlapping circles of friends who encourage and inspire

122. little hands that help with ministry work

123. a steamy cup of ginger-peach tea on a cold afternoon

124. butter smoothed onto freshly baked honey-wheat bread

125. sisters’ made-up silly songs and dances

126. the trio playing “Your Love, O Lord”

127. her little hands strumming an electric guitar

128. her little hands dancing across the piano keys

129. their own little lists of 100 gifts

130. Psalm 100

131. the 100th Day celebration for pre-K

132. strawberry crepes

133. m&ms

134. special friends visiting church

135. young hands eager to serve

136. four Lincoln Brewster tickets!

137. a restful night that helps restore my health

138. the little lips so eager to tell others about Jesus

5 Star Links for Friday

 

It’s 5-star Friday! Yay! Time for me to share some links to great online reading and/or listening.

1. Heart Condition (by Kasey Van Norman at Mentoring Moments) explains why the condition of our hearts is of greatest concern to the Lord.

2. Understanding the Unfathomable: God’s Unconditional Love (by Pastor Andreas Custer at Oakwood Community Church) reminds us how deeply God loves and encourages us to love one another.

3. The Most Needed Peer Pressure (by Wendy Alsup at Desiring God) urges us to love unconditionally when bearing with a loved one’s struggles.

4. 8 Tips for Talking to Your Kids about the Sermon (by Pastor Joe Holland) tells how little folks sitting in the pews retain more and understand more than you think they do and how we, as parents, can follow up with them after the sermon. Great tips!

5. Gaining Clarity on Women’s Roles Part 1 and Part 2 (by Leanne Popeko at CBMW) explains some key aspects of God’s lovely design for women in the church.

I pray that these words encourage and inspire you as much as they did me.

Also, may I ask a favor? I recently re-wrote my personal testimony as part of an assignment in the Bible study group I attend. The new version is much shorter and employs a very different format than the earlier version, which I posted years ago. If you would read it and perhaps leave a comment, I’d be ever so grateful to you. Just click here. Thank you!

“March on, my soul; be strong!” -Judges 5:21b

Counting to 1,000 (90-115)

Note: I recently read the book One Thousand Gifts, and now I’m making my own list of one thousand gifts. As they accumulate, I post them on Mondays and keep the running list on this tab, titled All is Grace.

90. starry diamonds glittering in the newest blanket of snow

91. snow dolloped like whipped cream on the trees

92. a warm little hand to hold in mine

93. busy fingers dusted with flour

94. pie dough

95. a tiny pink rolling-pin and oilcloth aprons

96. my mama’s homemade chocolate pudding recipe

97. freckles sprinkled across her nose like cinnamon on toast

98. crusts in blue pottery pans, cooling and waiting to be filled

99. their joy in made-from-scratch chocolate pies

100. the mixer’s promising hum as it whirls

101. dollops of whipped cream, freckled with chocolate

102. the first delicious slice of her little pie

103. carnations

104. shadows tangled up in the trees

105. her first batch of brownies

106. lacy piles of powdered sugar, generously sprinkled with zeal

107. the “snow kitchen” they built in our front yard

108. a Friday evening shared with very dear friends

109. his strong hands strumming that acoustic guitar

110. how she fixes my “hilarious hair”

111. the cold little glove-less hand that gets warm sharing my coat pocket 

112. snowball fights in the winter sunshine

113. the little voice that sing-shouts “Do you know what’s in the Bible?” and “I don’t know Hebrew, but if you do, I’d like to meet you.”

114. the dishwasher loader who frets, “Gravity must be really strong today…”

115. bedtime kisses and hugs 

 

Counting to 1,000 (65-89)

Note: I recently read the book One Thousand Gifts, and now I’m making my own list of one thousand gifts. As they accumulate, I post them on Mondays and keep the running list on this tab, titled All is Grace.

65. the click-clack of little feet wearing my black heels

66. the enchanting smell of fresh roses

67. a foggy morning that melts away to azure afternoon sky

68. flowers lined up in tiny vases

69. dinner with my Valentine

70. vibrant blue eyes that dance as she exclaims, “We watched race cars!”

71. the deep, soft brown eyes of the almost-2-year-old I adore

72. a Valentine from my little “feet-heart” ballerina

73. encouraging words from a brother-in-Christ

74. my daddy’s 65 years

75. her short, round shapes and tall, twisty shapes in dance class

76. jean-jacket weather in February

77. an ice-house rescued from the partly thawing broad waters

78. giggles overflowing from the back of the mini-van 

79. warm snow boots in yet another blizzard

80. little piles of snow high in the gently swaying tree branches

81. the dedicated pastor who perseveres with his preaching despite having a concusion

82. quiet Sunday afternoon naps

83. heavy falling snow blanketing everything in white

84. a warm house in which to hide from the wind and snow

85. news of a nephew’s baptism – Joy!

86. tiny felt dolls tucked into a pocket bed, created and sewn by an 8-year-old

87. a homemade felt slipper that has no match

88. penguins playing on home-grown icebergs

89. tired little legs that still need to be carried up to bed

 

3 Memorable Moose Moments

Moose Moment #1

My brother and I had a memorable moose moment during our childhood trip to Yellowstone National Park. It was the summer before I started 5th grade, and my parents had left Brent and me back at the rental cabin so they could enjoy a quiet dinner together at the lodge. I don’t even remember what caused us to look outside, but all of a sudden a big moose was lumbering through the forest nearby. We grabbed my mother’s expensive camera, which had film in it for slides and was not something we usually touched. Somehow we captured a blurry shot of the moose, I think. I don’t actually remember seeing the shot. But I remember being really excited and discussing the idea of keeping the whole memorable moose moment a secret. That way, our parents would totally wig out when they viewed that particular image in the slides from vacation. But, our memorable moose moment was too thrilling to keep as a secret, and I am pretty sure we gave our parents a full account of the event within seconds of their return to the cabin that evening.

Moose Moment #2

If you read my post last summer about our trip to a cabin up north, you might remember that I mentioned seeing moose in the wild then. Actually, I mentioned moose that evaded the camera. Really, there were two specific moose that evaded me, my camera, my shutterbug friend Kate, her camera and one of her daughters. 

Yes, we missed the memorable moose moment because we stayed back at the cabin while everyone else in our two families ventured off to get fresh water from the spring. Two moose approached the slow-moving minivan en route to the spring. Everyone in the van saw them but no one had a camera. So despite having lots of passionate witnesses of the memorable moose moment, we have no evidence.    

Moose Moment #3

This week I had another memorable moose moment. The girls and I were joining a few other families in our homeschool group for a field trip to Stages Theater to see the play If You Give a Moose a Muffin, based on the children’s book of same title. It’s a light-hearted and humorous story about a boy who encounters a loquacious and hungry moose while spending time at the family cabin.

We arrived at the theater a few minutes early, and so we had time to read the book together, and all agreed we were in for a treat. As the other families began to trickle into the lobby, the girls set off to look at pictures from earlier performances of the same show. They usually love to see the costumes and the cast of characters.

Pretty soon Laurel approached me, looking very somber, and said, “I’m afraid of the moose. He looks tall and scary.”

“Oh, no. Not good.” I thought to myself, remembering last month’s angel incident at Orchestra Hall. I tried to reassure her. “The moose isn’t scary. Remember the book. He’ll be funny. You’ll see.”

“But I don’t want to see the moose. I’m afraid of the moose,” she maintained in worried tone.

Soon it was time to line up and head inside to our seats. We were assigned seats as a group, on the second and third rows. Laurel ended up with an aisle seat on the second row. That sent her anxiety level through the roof because we were entirely too close to the stage plus who knows what might slink down that aisle beside her. She started sobbing. I was still struggling to get her calmed down when the theater’s photographer walked up to our group.

Then I remembered the e-mail. The theater had asked permission to photograph our homeschool group as we watched the performance. I tried to respond kindly as the photographer introduced herself and confirmed the agreement to photograph our children. But Laurel was such a mess and I could barely focus. What am I going to do with her? I was growing anxious, too.

The photographer scurried off somewhere, the theater grew more and more crowded, and Laurel continued to cry. I felt helpless. All I could do was pray. So I held Laurel close to me and whispered prayers. I thanked God for the opportunity to share this experience together. I asked God to help her overcome her fears, to be brave. I asked for peace. 

Soon after I opened my eyes, the photographer reappeared closeby and noticed Laurel’s tears.

“What is wrong, Honey?” she asked Laurel.

Laurel couldn’t answer so I replied, “She’s afraid of the moose. She saw his picture in the lobby, and we just had a bad experience with some large puppets recently and…”

“Would you like to meet the moose backstage?” she asked Laurel.

Laurel shook her head. “No, no, no.” She was convinced it was a terrible idea.

I, on the other hand, thought it was a grand idea. “Yes, let’s go!”

So off the three of us headed toward the exit at stage right. It was darker there and Laurel was still certain she didn’t want to meet the moose.

“This is the special, secret passageway. Follow me,” the photographer explained.

Being rather fond of secret passageways, Laurel followed a little less reluctantly, her curiousity piqued.

Next we stood in a well-lighted hallway just outside the dressing rooms. The photographer went in to fetch the actor. Seconds later she came back with the moose-man, who knelt down to Laurel’s eye-level to introduce himself. He was only partly dressed in his moose costume so his face was completely uncovered.

“My name is Todd. What is your name?” he asked.

“Laurel,” she managed.

“Nice to meet you.” Tugging on a mysterious contraption around his neck, he said, “Laurel, this is part of my moose mask. I’ll wear it on my face when I come out on stage, and my first line will be ‘Mmmmmm… What is that delicious aroma?’ Okay, enjoy the show!” He disappeared back into the dressing room area, and the photographer pointed us back toward our seats.

I sensed Laurel was calming down some, but I still was not certain she was going to make it through the show without another meltdown.

Back in our seats, I noticed a little girl in the front row with a little stuffed moose.

“Laurel, if you can be brave and watch the show, I will buy you a little stuffed moose like that. Would you like one? Do you think you can be brave and not cry?” I asked.

“Yes, I’d really like a little moose. I’ll try,” she commited. “Can I please sit in your lap?” she asked.

“Yes, yes. You can sit in my lap.” I said, pulling her close.

Pretty soon her sister and other friends asked what it was like backstage. She proudly told them that she got to meet the moose and that she knows exactly what his first line will be.

“Mmmmm. What is that delicious aroma?” she said over and over. The words seemed to help her.

The performance itself went just fine; we had no further moose anxiety. God answered our prayers for peace and courage.

Afterwards, I did buy a moose for Laurel, and Linnea used her allowance money to buy one also. I felt a little ridiculous standing there buying two moose, but they were quite inexpensive and I really felt like Laurel’s bravery should be remembered with a furry “bravo!”

For dinner that night, the girls had a little muffin party with their new moose friends. And that memorable moose moment was easily captured by my camera.

I Have Tree Questions

I am quite fond of trees. I suppose you know that already because I mentioned it in this post.

We have four trees in our yard — which is entirely too few trees in my opinion — but at least enough to attract a few robins in the springtime.

Oh, please come back soon, little robins!

Last summer our next-door neighbors planted this little evergreen tree.

 

I don’t know how the neighbors feel about it, but their tree brings me great joy each day when I stare at it through the window at my kitchen sink. 

How can a tree can be alive and green and growing despite bitter winter weather?

That’s a hardy tree.

Interestingly, Jeremiah 17:7-8 says people who trust in God are like hardy trees, too. It says,

But blessed is the man who trusts in the LORD, whose confidence is in him. He will be like a tree planted by the water that sends out its roots by the stream. It does not fear when heat comes; its leaves are always green. It has no worries in a year of drought and never fails to bear fruit.

Four years ago in my Christmas letter, I said that said rather than growing like weeds, I want my kids to grow like those hardy trees in Jeremiah 17:7-8. I want them to be rooted and established in the love of Christ so they don’t get blown over by a storm or wither in a drought.

How do you grow strong enough to endure hardship?

Trees need water and sunshine and nourishment; likewise, growing souls need living water, light from the Son, prayer and lots of nourishment and encouragement from God’s Word.

What kind of tree am I?

What have I been trusting in lately? 

Am I helping my children to trust in God?

How can I help root my children in love?

Am I serving up nourishment and encouragement when I speak to my kids? 

Or I am just speaking in logistics? “Go here. Eat this. Put that away. Change that. Finish this.”

What does God want these children to be?

Will they be able to withstand the trials of heat and drought?

Will I notice when they bear fruit?

Will one be like an orange tree and the other more like an oak?

Okay, those were some deep questions. And we may never figure out all of the answers this side of heaven, but I had to share them anyway.

On a lighter note, Laurel has been dancing to this fun “Tree Song” by Ken Medema in her creative movement dance class. It’s so catchy. Listen and I think you’ll see why we like it so much.

 

Growing Young

I’m feeling a little reflective this week. It started on Sunday when our pastor preached this sermon about heaven. It continued last night as a dear friend and I discussed how quickly our 30s are passing.  And then, just this afternoon, I read this post on Filling Time with Gratitude and Grace.

The article included yet another deep thought from Ann Voskamp:

I watch the hands move grace on the clock face. I’m growing older. These children growing up. But time is not running out. This day is not a sieve, losing time. With each passing minute, each passing year, there’s this deepening awareness that I am filling time, gaining time. We stand on the brink of eternity.” -Ann Voskamp

What a refreshing perspective on time! Especially when you have little ones about the house, time seems to pass so quickly. Not necessarily the days — filled with diaper changes and feedings and naps and such — but the years. The years pass quickly.

These past four or five years, I have grown comfortable and familiar with being a mom of a preschooler — first with Linnea and then again with Laurel. There are nearly three years between them, but somehow it seems there was no interruption in my era of being a mother of a preschooler.

As that era is now quickly drawing to a close, I present my own little poem about it.

A-Growing Up

My babies don’t look like babies anymore.

Though I swaddle them up, lie them down on the floor;

It’s ridiculous.

Oh, they simply are not babies anymore!

So back I look at pictures taken not long ago —

Back when the littlest one’s curls were tightly so;

Back when the oldest’s baby teeth had yet to go.

And I see these children a-growing up.

‘Tis a precious process I dare not disrupt.

But yes, my babies are a-growing up.